Baby daddies… baby daddies! You’ve officially been summoned to the front. Report immediately.

With Christmas creeping up and cuffing season in full swing, Bebe Rexha decided to skip the mistletoe and get straight to the point. The pop star isn’t asking for gifts this year – she’s asking for a man. Preferably tall. Preferably rich. Preferably employed. And preferably sent directly by her fans.

Earlier this week (Dec. 17) the hitmaker put the internet on notice with a social post that instantly sent Rexhars into matchmaking mode.

“Rexhars. You have a mission,” she wrote. “Find me a baby daddy.”

Rexhars. You have a mission.

Find me a baby daddy.

Here is what I’m looking for:
Looks: I’m ok with a 6 or 7 (personality is key for me)
Height: I don’t need someone tall just be taller than me. 5’8 and up
Job: must be successful and not a moocher. Must be richer than me or…

— Bebe Rexha (@BebeRexha) December 17, 2025

Honestly, who better to crowdsource love from than your own fanbase? Rexha didn’t just toss the request into the void either, she came prepared with requirements, stamdards the absolutely non-negotiables. 

Height matters – six or seven feet is ideal and before anyone gets offended, and to be clear, she’s just asking for someone taller than her. Who doesn’t want a tall partner to come sweep them off their feet? What Cardi B say, "I’m so small and tiny, he so big and tall."

But looks alone won’t cut it. Personality is mandatory. For the love of everything, please have one!!

Morals matter too – presumably similar to hers and without question, undeniably, entirely… a job is required. She spelled it out plainly in another post, "Job: must be successful and not a moocher. Must be richer than me or equal. I don’t pay for men or do 50/50." 

Rexha wrapped up her search by telling fans to "send [her] options," because at this point, the application process is officially open.

Later that same day, Rexha added a little astrology into the mix, sharing her "2026 in love" predictions from the Co–Star app on Instagram Stories. According to the universe, what she deserves is very specific: "owns a horse, knows where you put your phone, [and] reminds you to drink water." What she does not deserve? "Splits the bill, irony-poisoned, [and] not funny."

Alongside the screenshot, Rexha added, "If you own a horse and know where my phone is, let's go on a date."

Now if you believe in astrology even a little, you already know destiny is allegedly locked in. Somewhere out there, according to the stars and Rexha herself, is a tall, rich, emotionally competent man with a horse who knows where her phone is at all times. Manifestation in real time!

Rexha’s last public relationship was with filmmaker Keyan Safyari. The two dated for three years before splitting in 2023, which she revealed during a July concert when she told fans she had "just went through a breakup."

Bebe Rexha confirms her breakup with Keyan Safyari during her July 28th London concert 💔 pic.twitter.com/EQJ2zWrE1h

— E! News (@enews) August 1, 2023

She’s also been refreshingly candid about her sexuality over the years. In a 2021 interview with Gay Times, Rexha explained, "What I believe about sexuality is this: It’s a scale. Have I gone out with girls before? Yes. Have I dated girls? Yes, I have and famous ones but I’m not naming them."

She added that attraction comes down to "whoever inspires" her in the moment, though she admitted, "When I’m in a relationship with a girl, it’s just too emotional. The power, I personally cannot deal with that."

As she’s said before, Rexha doesn’t like labels or boxes and she’s not interested in being shoved into either. "Everybody wants to put people in boxes and I don’t like boxes, as you can tell with my music," she said. "I don’t like boxes whatsoever."

At first glance, Rexha’s list may sound unrealistic, but for someone at her status – successful, financially secure, and clear about her boundaries – the rules shift. And when you’re looking in the right rooms, around the right people, those standards don’t feel impossible, they feel intentional.